My boyfriend dating another girl
We’ve been together for six months and were getting on really well before this. I keep telling myself that everyone makes mistakes.Drink is no excuse but he says it is the first time he has done something like that and he hates himself for it.Most guys would never admit to feeling anything like that.Most aren’t even consciously aware of those feelings.Maybe what you meant is that you’re giving him everything *you think* he needs sexually, emotionally, etc. Oftentimes, we love other people in the way that we want to be loved – and while you make certain adjustments toward him since he’s a dude, it’s not safe to bet that you’re satisfying his every need…But let’s say that you were satisfying his every need.I feel so hurt and fear I will be judged if I admit I am willing to forgive him.
If you want the relationship to move forward, find deeper areas where you can reach him and inspire him.
The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.
There are times where one person might inspire change in another person, but it’s because the other person wanted the change themselves as well.
Understanding each other is the basis of connection.
The fact is, he has these sexy flirtations with other women, but you don’t really know why…
Anyone who genuinely wishes you well won’t judge you – as long as it’s clear he’s really trying. You can also send a private message on the Dear Deidre Official Facebook page.